Upon your initial invitation you will receive a worksheet and booklet giving you all the instructions to complete your application. However it is all kind of overwhelming if you have not done any genealogy before. So here is a quick short list to help you get started.
1 Write down everything you already know. You are the first generation on the worksheet. Write down your birthday and place of birth and if you are married include your husband's information. Continue with your parents and then your grandparents. Continue through the generations until you reach your patriot.
2 Ask your family (mother, father, aunt, grandmother, cousin) They are the most logical ones to help you fill in any missing blanks you may have. Don't forget to ask them if they know anyone else in the family that might know some of the answers too. You never know mother may have a crazy aunt who loves genealogy!
3 You must have proof. Just because mom says it's true doesn't make it so with the verification committee in Washington DC. You need to not only prove where your different relatives were born and died but you also need to prove how the different generations are connected. Most of the time it only takes a birth certificate, death certificate and marriage licence however if those are not available you can use other sources such as US census records, wills, land deeds or any other document that is on the approved sources list.
4 If you need help, please ask. Each DAR chapter has a lineage research committee whose sole purpose is to help potential member fill out their application. They won't do the work but can lead you in the right direction to get those proofs. With today's technology a lot of these proof records can be found online and a member of the committee can help you search that way too.
5 Be mindful of the time. Once you have been invited to join DAR the National Society allow two years to complete an application. However a time extension of one year may be granted if the applicant requests it.
The National Society Daughters of the American Revolution has a wonderful website too with a lot of answers to help with the application process. You can find their site HERE.
Again congratulation on deciding to join one of the greatest patriot societies ever!
Until next time, happy hunting!